Memorial Day Message From One of My Heroes

"One person can make a difference, and everyone should try." --John F. Kennedy

Ya-ya's are sisters of the heart and most of mine are connected in some way to the military. Several of my ya-yas are spouses of active duty or retired military members, or they, themselves, wear/have worn the uniform. Tammy, a nurse and Lt. Colonel in the USAF is among that group. She is a tough bundle of energy with a beautiful smile, an infectious laugh, and a heart of gold. I first met her in Arizona when she and my husband were both stationed at Luke Air Force Base. Her whirlwind personality caught me up in its embrace and I am so thankful that it did. She is one of those pieces that fit into my life-puzzle perfectly! I asked her to share her thoughts on her military career and wept when I read her reply.

I prompted--"Tammy, tell me the thoughts that come to mind FIRST when you think about your career---the images you can call up without having to think about it and the ones that will stick with you well after you retire."

Her response: The honor and privilege to be the 1% that chose to serve, chose to represent, chose to continue to defend the rights of others without judgement or prejudice. The tears that well up with a flag-draped casket or the National Anthem or military wedding, or homecoming always invoke the deepest emotion of gratitude for those intangibles and non-material experiences that few will ever appreciate. I can't express the brotherhood/sisterhood between branches and countries sharing a mission--it is inexplicable how race, religion, culture, gender, and sexual preference are irrelevant, and the simplicity and beauty of a unified front is so powerful! It isn't about women or men, it's about purpose and integrity and service--all for the greater good, despite the cost. Biggest thing: NO REGRETS!

Tammy, you are a gift in my life, the lives of everyone else that you touch, and to our Nation. Thank you for your service!

*Image from pinterest.com.

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